Men…Ugh

Men…Ugh

I was having lunch with Marge, my best friend, and we were talking about men and how they are never real, they never will let us see their ‘real’ side. I told Marge that women can fake an orgasm but men can fake a whole relationship.

 

I think men never really grow up, they just learn how to behave in public and around their wives. That means they are never themselves. They are always putting on an act or are always playing a part. That is true for all of us but especially true for men. It gets to the point where they have no clue who they are and so can’t ever share that with their partner. That’s really sad because that means real intimacy isn’t possible.

 

Men think that sexy is being bald and having a beer gut because it means they are being themselves. At least my ex found some authenticity and remembered he was gay. I can appreciate that. I didn’t like the results but…

 

I love men, and I am shallow and love a handsome man who takes care of himself. More than that I love an authentic man. It’s so rare. There’s little ego or macho stuff going on. Authenticity is apparent when there’s kindness and love and acceptance. They don’t have to prove anything and are comfortable in their own skin in an honest way. And they will talk about anything; even fun positions in bed.

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I’m a writer, parent of 2 amazing kids, and been through all 12 steps in AA. I am also divorced. My main financial burden is affording my psychologist and my main pleasure is being able to fall asleep without sleeping pills, which doesn’t always happen. My past feels like a lifetime ago and my present feels like a present. I’m one of those people who literally wakes up in the morning grateful that I get to have another day and didn’t kill myself 12 years ago. Mostly my life is now a blessing. I have a lot of stories from those days when it didn’t feel life was a blessing and also about now, wh ...

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