Relationships: Sexual Compatibility

Relationships: Sexual Compatibility

Problems with sexual compatibility can arise when being honest and authentic with your partner are missing. Not all people who love each other are naturally sexually compatible. Sometime, as a couple, you have to ‘try’ and talk about what you each like – honestly. That is not always an easy thing to do because it exposes a deeper layer of who you are that might be judged by your partner or society.

 

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Relationships: Better Communication

Relationships: Better Communication

Lack of communication is a core reason relationships suffer. When you aren’t clear about expectations, hopes, fears or what you love and want, you and your partner have little chance to come together or, for that matter, even really know each other. Everyone is always expanding and changing and it is communication that allows you both to continue to ‘know’ the always ‘new’ you.

 

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Affairs

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Here’s the scoop on affairs: 

Most affairs are with people who are close and you see often.

 

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Can a Long Distance Relationship Work?

Can a Long Distance Relationship Work?

Long distance relationships are difficult. For some they inspire more bitterness and fear than anything else. But if you are committed to making it work, and if you feel it won’t be a long distance thing forever, here are some suggestions.

 

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Relationships: Stop complaining

Relationships: Stop complaining

I have clients who have one mode of communication; complaining. They spend their entire hour with me complaining and, from what I can tell, spend their entire time at home doing the same. For the first few weeks I let this play out and then I stopped it. After several minutes I stepped in and told them to realize what they were doing. They didn’t realize they were doing it. They didn’t realize the tone of their voices and they didn’t realize how cruel they were being.

 

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Relationships: You and Your relationship are unique

Relationships: You and Your relationship are unique

Don’t compare your relationship to anybody else’s relationship. You may fight more or less than another couple. You may have more or less sex. You are unique.

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Relationships: Money, money, money

Relationships and Money

What is the one thing couples fight over the most? Money. It’s so interesting to watch couples in therapy sessions struggle with this subject. Money is always a power, a maker of priorities and a means of control. In most cases one person has or makes more than the other. That elevates them in stature and social importance. It creates a better and worse, a high and a low. It becomes so complicated because we are reacting to our conditioning. 70% of couples fight about money.

 

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Relationships: Cheating

Cheating

It is estimated that 18 to 20% of married people have sexual relationships with people outside their marriage: they cheat. 90% of women who cheat say that their outside partner appreciated them more and listened to them better than their spouse. Men found their outside partners more passionate and more caring. This is significant because most people rate looks, power, position, and other factors as significantly less important.

 

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Relationships: Snoring

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Snoring is seldom talked about as an irritant in relationships. Yet I know several couples that sleep in separate bedrooms because one of the partners snores.

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The critical reality check

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It is a critically important understanding to realize that people have a higher Self and a human self. We all have a spiritual, divine if you like, aspect that is rooted in the higher consciousness of love and peace and expanded connection. But we all also have the conditioning, limitations and ego that create the issues, separation, and the conflicts and needs we all feel.

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